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Join Tommy Angelo (author of Elements of Poker) and Wayne Lively as they embark on the Eightfold Path to Poker Enlightenment. This remarkable series is an excellent companion to Tommy's book and has been lovingly crafted over the past year. Featuring brand new musical composition from Tommy, this series is designed with the iPod in mind and transcends standard video poker training. Watch. Listen. Breathe. Win.
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Right speech. How to talk, how to type, how to be polite, how to protect your thoughts. All these topics and more.
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SnappieVouz
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lol It seems this episode was made for me.
I know berating the fish is a bad thing to do, but I do exactly the same as Wayne does. I get a bad beat and I just NEED to tell my opponent that he/she played the hand horrible.
I do this super sarcastic by saying "nice hand, you played that hand SUPER well, calling the flop, and calling almost your whole stack off to hit on the river, SUPER.. you are going to be the next Phil ivey!!"
After that I already feel bad by doing it
Something I also do is when I had a horrible session jumping into the forum/aim to tell everybody poker is a game of luck
man, this was a great episode. Awareness, i love it
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kkeorc
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But I feel good afterwards.
Not berating the fish after a bad beat makes it more likely that I go on tilt although I really don't have big tilt issues. It's sort of like an outlet.
Maybe this episode will help me to get rid of it entirely. So far this (awesome) series really helped improving my overall game.
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teneights
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Great series, this might just be one step towards tiltlessness for me. My biggest leak
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Wayne Lively
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It was not easy confessing my sins. This is my biggest problem. I don't really tilt in the traditional sense, but I sure do when it comes to taking a hammer to the glass. Mostly it's ego. You know you are smarter than they are, and by accusing them (accurately) of being fish, you maintain your superiority in the face of evidence you're an idiot.

If I could change one thing I do, this is it. Do as I say, not as I do.
Glad you guys are enjoying the series. It is our contribution to mankind.
Best wishes,
Wayne
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SnappieVouz
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Hm i didn't know i had such a huge ego
I got a lot of testoteron though
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noface
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Sorry but this comes off as pure hubris. 8(
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CoRdo
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In the video you said something about the famous "I didn't get what I deserve." And it obviously is wrong speech. But by not saying it I recon that it still is in my head and I still think it. I can manage to not say anything, but I still think it. And thinking about it makes me suffer. So how can I get it out of my mind? It's like you said in the beginning, by closing my mouth it sticks in my head and, well it doesn't literally explode eventually but it feels like.
Something I experienced maybe a year ago was when I played a big tournament with my friends. We all played and talked on skype. And on the money bubble everyone had a healthy chipstack expect me. Then I caught AA and went all in just to get called by 66 and he rivered me. So I went out of the tournament just before the money while all my friends were still in. I wasn't actually mad at the guy with 66. It was me busting out just before the money through a rough beat and everyone else making the money. They sort of ignored it and just said "oh, that's bad" and went on talking about their hands and other things. So I basically wanted them to express condolences to me just to feel better. And the really bad part was when I hoped that they would bust out quickly too so I am not the one left behind. And I really feel bad about hoping my friends would bust out.
But even if I didn't say anything after busting out (and I didn't tell them that I hoped they would bust) I still feel so bad and it still is in my mind.
Oh there's something I wanna add to right speech on the internet: Writing properly, and properly meaning writing capital letters, commas, don't instead of dont etc., is a big part of right speech I think. It makes you reflect more on what you write and it's just easier to read for others.
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Hellsen
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just wanted to say thanks for being awesome. offering videos like the eightfold path to poker enlightment in FOUR different formats AND drm free is really cool. keep up the good work.
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Entity
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Gauss
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like the piano riff at 19:50. pithy. dont like cutting the Stones like a rainbow short right before the delicious part, its like not getting off with sex. these are my thoughts.
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Tommy Angelo
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By training your mind so that you are able to take charge of what is and isn't going on in your mind at any given moment. A simple (not to be confused with easy, cuz it ain't) and effective way to do this training is to count your breaths many times every day.
Here's an article I wrote on that topic. This was an argument I couldn't possibly lose! :-)
http://tommyangelo.com/articles/its_all_well_and_good.htm
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Mindworm
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Fantastic series.
I'm curious about some aspects of table talk, specifically shutdown answers. I've often responded to "what did you have" with "cards and chips." I'm wondering if that's just a little too smartass. Should I just shut up when confronted with that question?
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the_luke
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My wife loves cats, but has a phobia of green tree frogs. Thus, the end of the video was very much joy turned to suffering.
Love the series, big part of why I signed up to DC.
-Luke
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Tommy Angelo
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It's really amazing how many questions at the poker table just scream out for some kind of smart ass reply. "What did you have" is very often one of those questions. You really only have four choices: Give an actual answer, meaning cards, that sounds serious (even if it's a lie), ignore the questioner entirely, give a smartass reply (such as "cards and chips"), or tell the real truth, such as "I'd rather not say."
I've done them all a zillion times each. Not saying anything is not ideal. But for me, nowadays, it's always the correct "least of evils" choice. The think that makes silence so much better than any of the others in my opinion is that any reaction at all brings you down to the level of the questioner. It means that you care about the question, and the answer, and the opinions formed because of them. It sends a message that you care about all the stuff that is exactly the same stuff that makes it impossible to really focus on the next hand. Basically it means you are just like the person who asked the question. If you want to separate yourself from him/them, then silence is the only way.
But let's say that's not an option. Of the remaining options, I think a smart-ass answer is the worst choice. But it's close.
Tommy
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Tommy Angelo
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:-)
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mrgrek
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Maybe I'm wrong, but I think the argument that not chatting is +EV from informational standpoint isn't always true.
If someone can extract more information than his opponents from chatting, it can be +EV to chat and provoke responses.
Colin Moshman wrote this about showing hands: if it provokes your opponent to show too, and you use the information better, it's +EV to start showing your hands.
Actually, this is the single most important thing that prevent's me from just disabling chat.
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SONY888
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Epic series, fantastic classic videos.... I was thinking if you could make a bonus video with possibly any other tidbits or answers to questions... and then end it with a mini concert perhaps ten or fifteen minutes where we can see you playing... i think it would be fantastic, and maybe at the end you could give a da da da da thats all folks it would be a great finish for an all time video series thank you and Wayne very much for all your efforts
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CF23
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i haven't had a chance to watch this yet, so it might have been said in the video, but at least for online poker, i found it very healthy to recently exclude myself from pokerstars chat.
i just sent them an email, after once more i said pretty horrible things to some donk (i would be ashamed of repeating what i said), and so now i have been self excluded for 1 1/2 months and it's great. i simply CANNOT type anything.
funny enough though, i still sometimes do and hit enter?!
lol
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Wayne Lively
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My point in this debate is if you do chat, you are increasing the possibility of making a mistake. Does the risk outweigh the possible reward? Is there ego involved? Can you be sure?
It's easy to delude oneself into rationalizing actions, so easy that it raises the risks to a very high level. By thinking about it and making a conscious decision, you may lower the risks to an acceptable amount.
This makes poker players smarter than the average politician. The ability to think about long-term consequences.
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STARSCREAM.
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Really loving the series so far, every episode so far has been great, this one wasn't an exception.
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nair
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Bailouts come to mind.
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Mrage
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So this bi-weekly release schedule... is that some stealthy way of forcing me to practice patience or something?

Why can't it be next Tuesday NOW?
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Mindworm
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Thanks for the response, Tommy. I'm a terrible liar, so looks like I'll be sticking with silence or "I'd rather not say."
Mrage, you can use the time to review earlier episodes. I find just sitting and listening to one calming and uplifting.
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Swampy
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My poker game is still struggling, but the Eight Fold Path has made me a far happier, positive and motivated person in general. This series is just incredible.
I love the quote about someone seeing Tommy for poker, which took several shots off their golf game. This happened to me after listening to The Eight Fold Path! I went out on Sunday and hit some shots I didn't even know I had in me. My putter was running ridiculously hot, I got up & down on five consecutive holes - which is better than good for me. I put it all down to mindfulness, my new favorite thing. 'mindful breathing, mindful posture' is so crucial to good golf.
I've been using 'right-speech' at work with awesome results. It's lifted the whole mood in my office.
Thanks Tommy and DC!
Swampy
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AlexB81
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I think HU chatting with bad regulars is a lot +EV because some tilts badly and the same is true 6max against some medium opponents.
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trb514
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To say I am impressed by this series would be an understatement. This series is worth the 30 bux a month by itself. I know it probably doesn't really mean much to these guys, but Tommy Angelo has earned my respect for putting into words concepts that I have thought about but never quite grasped as well as I do now. This particular episode hits home for me because I used to be a big mouth...I can still be if I don't watch myself.

Thank you Tommy. And Wayne too
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Joeyg50
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Tommy I really hope DC gives u and Wayne a new series soon. U guys
are great and the back and forth camaraderie is gr8. This is the honest
truth, I signed up for DC just for the free trial and the first video I saw was episode 1 and bam couldnt quit. Anyway hope this is not it for u guys and u have many series to come.
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shoopralazor
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what is this song/melody?
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Tommy Angelo
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Stairway to Heaven by Led Zeppelin. The next two piano inserts are other parts of the same song.
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Mullemeck81
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Stairway to Heaven, Led Zeppelin.
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iwantmymtv
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I have to agree to this. Still, this is an amazing series and the piano makes it that much better. I think I need to download the intro music and listen to it before each session, or rather, during the session. Repeatedly! That way I know I won't go on tilt due to it's soothing sound and associations it generates.
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Tommy Angelo
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Ask, and...
http://www.tommyangelo.com/music/Theme-Music-start-of-all-episodes.mp3
http://www.tommyangelo.com/music/Theme-Music-end-of-episode1.mp3
http://www.tommyangelo.com/music/Theme-Music-end-of-episode2.mp3
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TheGeek
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Thanks for the links Tommy, have you got any plans to put out some of the music you played during the series on mp3 or CD? The songs like Stairway to Heaven and She's a Rainbow and stuff?
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Tommy Angelo
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Yes. It'll all be up at my site (mp3s) within a week or couple months. lol Seriously!
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TheGeek
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Excellent! Thank you!
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Eisflamme
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Thank you from me, too. Very rarely can I relax that much like when I'm listening to your music.
This is of the things that make this series more than a bare poker video series for me.
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Tommy Angelo
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I just put all of the music from the series at this page:
http://www.tommyangelo.com/the-eightfold-path-to-poker-enlightenment.html
Also there: some of the drawings and images from the series, some text about "the making of," and some older music of mine.
Tommy
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WallyWattz
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Fantastic series so far. Im really interested in learning some things about Buddhism and meditation now. Tommy, do you have recommendations for books or other material on this subject? (i just ordered yours
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Tommy Angelo
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Yep...
http://tommyangelo.com/meditation_101.html
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CasinoR7
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I have always find it funny that people berathe the fish for making a bad play while they are making a bad poker decision themselves, namely wrong speech.
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CasinoR7
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What do you think is the best thing to do when people berathe the fish? Do nothing or report it to the moderators in online poker?
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Tommy Angelo
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Do nothing.
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PygmyHero
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Hey Wayne and Tommy,
I'm just re-watching the series ~1 year later (as per recommended). I want to say thanks again for all the time and effort that went into this.
I'm glad you addressed responding to open-ended questions (where a yes/no answer will not suffice). I played a live hand since my initial viewing of this episode that I want to get your thoughts on.
10/20 Borgata Full
I open the button with some cheese, like 94s or so.
Some action goes in post flop and the hand gets to showdown.
I roll the winning hand and drag the pot.
Big blind (who lost the hand): "I don't know how you raise with that..."
Me: "I just put the four chips out there."
Shutoff answer?
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Tommy Angelo
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I would say no. It's not an shutoff answer because you were not asked a question. I would call what you said a voluntary statement. (It could be taken as a smartass statement, or as a genuinely enjoyable fun statement, depending on the exact tone of the whole situation.) I think the best reaction to what your opponent said would have been silence.
That said, what you said does have a shutoff quality to it in that it doesn't invite the conversation to continue.
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